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Centers for Disease Control Tallies Deaths From Choking Game

The Choking Game: CDC’s Findings on a Risky Youth Behavior

An article published in the February 15, 2008 MMWR (Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report 2008) describes an activity called "the choking game," which has led to the death of at least 82 children and adolescents since 1995.

Researchers from CDC’s Division of Unintentional Injury Prevention analyzed media reports of deaths of children and adolescents from the choking game. Highlights from their findings address some common questions about this public health threat.

What is the choking game?

The choking game is a dangerous activity that older children and early adolescents sometimes play to get a brief high. They either choke each other or use a noose to choke themselves. After just a short time, children can pass out, which may lead to serious injury or even death from hanging or strangulation.

Who is most at risk for death from playing the choking game?

  • Boys were much more likely to die from the choking game than girls; 87% of victims were boys.
  • Most of the children that died were 11-16 years old (89%).
  • Nearly all of the children who died were playing the game alone when they died.
  • Deaths have occurred all over the United States; the choking game isn’t limited to one area of the country.

What are the warning signs that a child is playing the choking game?

 

Parents, educators, health-care providers, or peers may observe any of the following signs that can indicate a child has been involved in the choking game:

  • Discussion of the game or its aliases
  • Bloodshot eyes
  • Marks on the neck
  • Wearing high-necked shirts, even in warm weather
  • Frequent, severe headaches
  • Disorientation after spending time alone
  • Increased and uncharacteristic irritability or hostility
  • Ropes, scarves, and belts tied to bedroom furniture or doorknobs or found knotted on the floor
  • The unexplained presence of dog leashes, choke collars, bungee cords, etc.
  • Petechiae (pinpoint bleeding spots) under the skin of the face, especially the eyelids, or the conjunctiva (the lining of the eyelids and eyes)

What are some of the other names used for the choking game?

  • Pass-out game
  • Space monkey
  • Suffocation roulette
  • Scarf game
  • The American dream
  • Fainting game
  • Something dreaming game
  • Purple hazing
  • Blacking out/blackout
  • Dream game
  • Flat liner
  • California choke
  • Space cowboy
  • Airplaning
  • Purple dragon
  • Cloud nine

How quickly can someone die after playing the choking game? Someone can become unconscious in a matter of seconds. Within three minutes of continued strangulation (i.e., hanging), basic functions such as memory, balance, and the central nervous system start to fail. Death occurs shortly after.

 

Are there non-fatal, long-term consequences of the choking game?

  • Loss of consciousness and death of brain cells due to oxygen deprivation in the brain; coma and seizures may occur in severe cases
  • Concussions or broken bones (including jaws) from falls associated with the choking game
  • Hemorrhages of the eye

How can the choking game be prevented? Research is not available on the best strategies to prevent the choking game. However, parents, educators, and health-care providers should be made aware of this public health threat and the warning signs that adolescents may be playing the game.

 

How can I learn more?

Read the complete article here: Unintentional Strangulation Deaths from "The Choking Game" Among Youths Aged 6 - 19 Years – United States, 1995-2007. Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report 2008; 57(6):141-144. Available at: http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/mm5706a1.htm

Content Source: National Center for Injury Prevention and Control
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